The Exiles

An educational group for women/non-binary/genderqueer/gender variant/intersex people who have a positive, personal interest in BDSM

  • Monthly Program: Catherine Gross, Anatomy of Pain

    Monthly Program: Catherine Gross, Anatomy of Pain

    Friday March 19, 2021 | 8:00 PM–10:00 PM

    As tops, we need to know the body beyond the normative class outlining joints and muscles. As bottoms, you need to have this information to give informed consent. Want to know why players decades ago were able to play in dark spaces without good lighting? This workshop is presented from top/bottom perspectives. Learn about taking and creating pain from the top, bottom, emotional, psychological and physical perspectives.

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The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male, regardless of level of experience. All such people are welcome, and racism, transphobia, classism, ageism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.

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New to BDSM?

Many people are curious about BDSM but might be a little reluctant to investigate their new found (or old) curiosity. Our Orientation is a fun class that will teach you the BDSM basics and will dispel any myths. You will be made to feel welcomed.

Our monthly Program is also a fun way to get out of the house and meet new people, while learning something new.

If you’d rather read up on BDSM first, checkout out our Resources page and do your research from the comfort and safety of your home.

Want to Be a Presenter?

Are you interested in presenting a topic for the Exiles and want to know more? Here are our Presenter Guidelines. The pdf explains a lot, including information about the program evening schedule and our modest compensation options.

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