The Exiles

An educational group for women/non-binary/genderqueer/gender variant/intersex people who have a positive, personal interest in BDSM

  • Quickie! Better Than Chocolate Movie Screening

    Thursday October 29, 2020 | 7:00 PM–8:00 PM

    Available Only for Exiles Members and Patreon Patrons

    Oh what a treat it is to have members and patrons like you! We’re taking a little bit of a more relaxed approach to our next Quickie. Join us for a viewing party of the sultry, yet sweet lesbian classic. To join, click the Zoom link below.
     

    Zoom

    The meeting will require a password. The password will be emailed to Exiles members and Patreon patrons the day before the event.

    If you are unable to be a member or patron due to financial hardship but still want to attend this event, please contact cocos@theexiles.org.

    For information on becoming a member or patron use the links below:

    Exiles Membership or  Patreon

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The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male, regardless of level of experience. All such people are welcome, and racism, transphobia, classism, ageism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.

Next Orientation

New to BDSM?

Many people are curious about BDSM but might be a little reluctant to investigate their new found (or old) curiosity. Our Orientation is a fun class that will teach you the BDSM basics and will dispel any myths. You will be made to feel welcomed.

Our monthly Program is also a fun way to get out of the house and meet new people, while learning something new.

If you’d rather read up on BDSM first, checkout out our Resources page and do your research from the comfort and safety of your home.

Want to Be a Presenter?

Are you interested in presenting a topic for the Exiles and want to know more? Here are our Presenter Guidelines. The pdf explains a lot, including information about the program evening schedule and our modest compensation options.

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