The Exiles

An educational group for women/non-binary/genderqueer/gender variant/intersex people who have a positive, personal interest in BDSM

  • Special September Program: Folsom All-Genders Social (4th Friday)

    Friday September 27, 2019 | 7:30 PM–10:30 PM

    Join the Exiles on Friday, September 27th, from 7:30 to 10:30 pm, for a Friday evening social to kick off Folsom weekend. The Exiles welcome people of all genders and identities to come enjoy our hospitality. Visitors from out of town are especially welcome!

    Stop by before your evening party – or make us your party! – and enjoy entertainment, demos, delicious refreshments, and cake. Our silent auction features all kinds of goodies to start your Folsom off right!

    This event is free to all Exiles members, with a suggested donation of $10-$30 for non-members. This is our major fundraiser, so please be as generous as you can. But no one is turned away for lack of funds.

    Then come to the After-Party!! Details here…

    We look forward to seeing you!

     

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The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male, regardless of level of experience. All such people are welcome, and racism, transphobia, classism, ageism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.

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New to BDSM?

Many people are curious about BDSM but might be a little reluctant to investigate their new found (or old) curiosity. Our Orientation is a fun class that will teach you the BDSM basics and will dispel any myths. You will be made to feel welcomed.

Our monthly Program is also a fun way to get out of the house and meet new people, while learning something new.

If you’d rather read up on BDSM first, checkout out our Resources page and do your research from the comfort and safety of your home.

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