The Exiles

An educational group for women/non-binary/genderqueer/gender variant/intersex people who have a positive, personal interest in BDSM

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  • Quickie! TBD

    Tuesday January 26, 2021 | 7:00 PM–8:00 PM

    Available Only for Exiles Members and Patreon Patrons

    Oh what a treat it is to have members and patrons like you! Join us for our monthly Quickie! To join, click the Zoom link below.
     

    Zoom

    The meeting will require a password. The password will be emailed to Exiles members and Patreon patrons the day before the event.

    If you are unable to be a member or patron due to financial hardship but still want to attend this event, please contact cocos@theexiles.org.

    For information on becoming a member or patron use the links below:

    Exiles Membership or  Patreon

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The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male, regardless of level of experience. All such people are welcome, and racism, transphobia, classism, ageism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.

Next Orientation

  • Orientation: BDSM 101

    Friday February 5, 2021
    7:30 PM– 9:30 PM

    Eventbrite, webinar
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New to BDSM?

Many people are curious about BDSM but might be a little reluctant to investigate their new found (or old) curiosity. Our Orientation is a fun class that will teach you the BDSM basics and will dispel any myths. You will be made to feel welcomed.

Our monthly Program is also a fun way to get out of the house and meet new people, while learning something new.

If you’d rather read up on BDSM first, checkout out our Resources page and do your research from the comfort and safety of your home.

Want to Be a Presenter?

Are you interested in presenting a topic for the Exiles and want to know more? Here are our Presenter Guidelines. The pdf explains a lot, including information about the program evening schedule and our modest compensation options.

Next Business Meeting

  • Business Meeting

    Sunday January 31, 2021
    2:00 PM– 4:00 PM

    Zoom, webinar
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Upcoming Events

  • Quickie! TBD
      Tuesday January 26, 2021
      7:00 PM–8:00 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Business Meeting
      Sunday January 31, 2021
      2:00 PM–4:00 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Exiles Munch
      Wednesday February 3, 2021
      6:30 PM–8:30 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Orientation: BDSM 101
      Friday February 5, 2021
      7:30 PM–9:30 PM
      Eventbrite, webinar

  • Monthly Program: TBD
      Friday February 19, 2021
      8:00 PM–10:00 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Exiles Munch
      Wednesday March 3, 2021
      6:30 PM–8:30 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Business Meeting
      Sunday March 7, 2021
      2:00 PM–4:00 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Monthly Program: Catherine Gross, Anatomy of Pain
      Friday March 19, 2021
      8:00 PM–10:00 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Business Meeting
      Sunday April 4, 2021
      2:00 PM–4:00 PM
      Zoom, webinar

  • Exiles Munch
      Wednesday April 7, 2021
      6:30 PM–8:30 PM
      Cactus, Oakland

Stuff the Ballot Box!

You can be an integral part of our kinky community! Yes YOU! Officer elections for the Exiles are coming up in March and April, and this is your big chance to join us and guide our future!

Our programs and events bring people together. Becoming an officer puts you right in the middle of the kinky women’s/nonbinary community. You’ll keep us connected both within our local community, across the country, even internationally!

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Volunteer for Upcoming Events

Due to COVID-19, all of our events are virtual and we need volunteers to help with online events. Please sign up on our volunteer list and tell us what you can help with.

Click to Sign up

We have opportunities of all kinds, for all interests and abilities. Come join the party!

Thank you for your support and volunteer time!


Membership Renewal Time!

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If you haven’t yet joined the Exiles, attend an upcoming orientation or contact the Membership Officer at membership (at) theexiles (dot) org for info. Read more about membership and orientation here.


The Exiles on Patreon!

Become a Patron!

Exiles Patreon page

 


SHOP and Support the Exiles

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If you are an Amazon customer, please think of the Exiles when you shop. Instead of going to Amazon.com, go to smile.amazon.com. It’s the same Amazon you know and love, but you can designate a non-profit beneficiary to receive a portion of your purchase. It costs you nothing, and supports the Exiles! Just designate “Exiles Woman to Woman” as your beneficiary.

 


Exiles Patches!

Did you know you can now earn a patch by volunteering for the Exiles? Check out the Articles and Policies for details.

So volunteer!


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If you’re not an Exiles member you can still receive information about our events via email.

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(Hey, why aren’t you a member? Find out more on the Membership page.)

MEMBERSHIP RENEWAL

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DONATE

The Exiles is a 501(c)3 non-profit educational organization. Donations you make are TAX DEDUCTIBLE. If your company has matching, you can double your donation! Donate easily online using PayPal.




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